Kales & Kales, PLC helps families resolve divorce and family law matters outside of traditional courtroom litigation. We serve clients in Fairfax, Arlington, Tysons Corner, and throughout Northern Virginia.
Our practice focuses on divorce mediation and collaborative divorce — structured, settlement-focused processes designed to help families reach informed agreements on all aspects of divorce, including property division, spousal support, child support, custody, and parenting, without contested court proceedings.
Divorce Mediation
Jonathan and Amy Kales serve as a co-mediation team, acting as neutral facilitators. They do not represent either spouse. Instead, they guide discussions, clarify legal frameworks under Virginia law, and assist couples in exploring options for resolution.
Mediation can address:
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Division of property and financial matters
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Allocation of debts
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Spousal support
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Child support
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Custody and parenting schedules
The result is a clear, written agreement reflecting the parties’ informed decisions across all areas of divorce and family law.
Collaborative Divorce
For clients who prefer an attorney-led negotiation process, Jonathan represents individuals in collaborative divorce. Collaborative divorce is a team-based approach, where each spouse has specially trained counsel and both parties commit to resolving disputes without litigation.
Neutral financial or mental health professionals may also participate to support informed decision-making and constructive communication. This structured approach allows all issues — financial, property, and parenting — to be addressed comprehensively while remaining out of court.
Property and Debt Allocation
Virginia follows an equitable distribution system under § 20-107.3 of the Virginia Code. In mediation or collaborative divorce, couples can:
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Identify marital and separate property
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Determine how assets will be divided
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Agree on transfers of real estate, retirement interests, investment accounts, and tangible personal property
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Allocate debts, including credit cards, personal loans, and student loans
Agreements reflect the parties’ decisions rather than a court-imposed outcome.
Spousal Support
Spousal support is governed by § 20-107.1 of the Virginia Code. In mediation or collaborative divorce, couples can:
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Explore options for spousal support tailored to their circumstances
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Reach agreements that are incorporated into the final divorce settlement
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Avoid litigation while structuring support that complies with Virginia law
Child Support, Custody, and Parenting
Mediation can also help families address:
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Parenting schedules and decision-making authority under § 20-124.3
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Child support arrangements under § 20-108.2
Agreements are tailored to the family’s unique circumstances and provide clarity and structure without imposing court-driven outcomes.
Experience in Settlement-Focused Family Law
Jonathan has been a Virginia family law attorney since 2000 and a Virginia Supreme Court Certified Family Mediator since 2005.
Amy has been a Virginia family law attorney since 2003 and serves as a family law mediator in the firm’s co-mediation practice.
Together, they bring decades of experience assisting couples in structuring agreements that comply with Virginia law and reflect the parties’ decisions across all aspects of divorce and family law.
Schedule a Consultation
Divorce and family law matters are complex and personal. Kales & Kales provides structured guidance to help families make informed decisions and finalize agreements on property, financial, spousal support, and parenting matters.
Contact Kales & Kales, PLC to discuss mediation or collaborative divorce and explore your out-of-court resolution options.


